SEX AND ROMANCE IN MARRIAGE
marriage. We wish to marry and have our own
kids.
Many singles are really praying for this marriage even when they have no clue about it.
Remove sex and romance out of marriage and most people become confused about what
marriage is all about.
Look here, marriage is not where you rush to like an award night.
It is not a company that you are free to employ a
manager to help you take care of it while you sit
in your chair, with your legs crossed and a glass
of wine on the table as a CEO.
You want to marry right?
But can i ask you some questions?
These questions are for both the bachelors and
spinsters.
1. What is marriage? Can you explain to us
without making it look like a primary school topic and definition gotten from the syllable?
2. How good are you in management? I mean
home management, emotional management, time management, financial management, Etc.
3. How patience are you?
4. What can you offer, outside sex and making
babies?
5. How emotionally, spiritually and intellectually
equipped are you?
6. Are you ready to keep your marriage secrets
away from your parents? Because definitely, they never told you everything that took place in their own union.
Some single ladies soak their panties for more
than one week without washing them. Is that one wife?
Some men find it difficult to shave their armpits,
their moustache is so bushy and unkept. Is that
one the husband to be?
From year to year, you can't change your boxer,
wear an ironed cloth, look neat and attractive but you want a neat woman who is talented and skilled with your bushy and smelly armpit?
You attract your match,
That is the truth.
Iron sharpens iron and not ceramics.
Whatever you want, you must be.
If you want a neat woman, then be neat because that neat woman you are crushing on is still looking for a neat man who is her match.
Marriage is not all about sex, you can get it
anywhere! It is not all about children, you can adopt! It is not all about the change of name, the
Government can help you change your name if
you want!
It is beyond the name you call it.
You call it marriage,
but i call it a union!
It is a new covenant with an individual from a
different background who you will be staying with as a new family member.
So what is your reason for marriage?
The wedding gown?
The traditional marriage look?
The name "BRIDE'"?
To have free access for sex?
To just make babies?
To get the ring and flaunt it?
To face a new beginning and responsibility?
Your reason for marriage has a lot of influence on
your marriage.
So think well before you move in, those who rushed in, rushed out too.
I bet you don't want to rush out too.
Have a clue and equip your heart before you start the process.
Thank you for taking your time to read this and God bless us all.
SOURCE: lordoloruntoba
YOUTH FOR CHRIST MINISTRY(YFCM),IBADAN, NIGERIA
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